Many times you see people around you, their head held high, their posture erect, and their stride confident. And then you notice how clean cut they are, their clothing well pressed and giving them an air of je ne sais quoi. Oddly enough, as I have found out recently, your clothes can give you a boost in confidence and charisma not found in any other means. Now, I’m not saying that if you dress a certain way you lack these qualities, but the way you look and how you dress can add the spring in your step. Its fairly indescribable, because essentially nothing’s changed except for some articles of clothing or a haircut, or both, and that can be enough. There was no dramatic change, you don’t look incredibly different, but its just enough of a tweak. So what does that mean for you?
Well, take a look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself. Is this really what makes me attractive? Will this get me a guy or a girl? Do you notice people admiring you when you wear your clothes? I’d understand if you were resistant to change, as you probably feel that your clothes are a part of you and an extension of your personality. Well, I’m not telling you to get rid of your “style”, whatever that happens to be. But you can expand on it, grow on it. If you don’t normally wear collared button down shirts, try wearing some. Maybe you wear clothes that are too big for you, or maybe you wear a lot of graphic T’s. Change it up a little.
Gentlemen get the opinion of your female friends, try changing up your wardrobe. If you’re a single man and continue to be single it MIGHT be your clothing. You want to be appealing, attractive, and get the eye of the girl you’re interested in. Don’t lose your identity, just add on to it and women, should you have women friends, are an excellent source of advice. Seek them out and you won’t be disappointed.
Ladies, well, this is a little harder. As you see, me not being a woman, its harder for me to provide the appropriate advice for you other than to talk with your girlfriends and get an HONEST opinion from them. Of course, you ladies are very enabling in that, if you are the attractive one in the group, and don’t lie to yourself you know you identify with being the hot one, you appreciate and try to keep unattractive people around you to make yourself look better and feel better. You need to help those who may not be as “attractive” as you. Should they seek your help, give them positive advice and help them out. You already have the upper hand, so to speak, give them your guidance so that they too can feel attractive.
If you feel you look good already, that’s great, but it doesn’t hurt to change it up every once in awhile. Try it out, and you might see some pretty interesting and positive results.
